What prevent us from becoming the person we would “really” like to become? That is a question that we have all asked ourselves and in Marshall Goldsmith’s new book entitled “Triggers: he provides the readers with what he refers to as Triggers that thwart us from becoming that person. So just what are the triggers according to Marshall?
First is “If I understand, I will do., Second, “I have the willpower and won’t give in to temptation.” Third, “Today is a special day” Fourth, “At least I’am better than…..”, Fifth, “I shouldn’t need help and structure.” Sixth, “I won’t get tired and my enthusiasm will not fade.” Seventh, ” I have all the time in the world.” Eight, “I won’t get distracted and nothing unexpected will occur.” Ninth, ” An epiphany will suddenly change my life.” Tenth, My change will be permanent and I will never have to worry again.” Do any of these sound familiar?
In my interview with Marshall we explore the reasons, environment and behavior that prevents us from becoming the person we have always wanted to become. We also discuss about something that Marshall refers to as the power of checklists? Marshall speaks with me about a book called “The Checklist Manifesto” and explains the power of using checklists to keep us from doing “stupid” stuff. Marshall has his assistant call and ask him “Daily Questions”, 29 questions that keep him focused and “becoming that person he wants to become”.
If you want to learn more from the master coach Marshall Goldsmith I highly recommend you listening to our interview together, then go out and get a copy of “Triggers“. This book will provide you with insights and wisdom into your own self sabotage that is getting in the way of you being a better person.
If you want more information about Marshall please click here to be directed to his website, or click here to be directed to his Facebook page.
Thanks for listening. Enjoy learning from one of the real masters.
Raising children in our world today takes a considerable about of energy and thought. Our children are so undated with media through cell phones, tablets and computers that at times it seems overwhelming.
So just how do you monitor the devices and the amount of time they spend on mobile devices. While the answer might seem simple, our resident expert and author Susan Stiffelman suggest setting limits, and become the Captain of the Ship. If we are afraid of our children’s reactions (which will most likely be negative to limiting time on cell or computers), we cannot parent effectively says Susan. She suggests that we need to set the example for our children and practice what we preach, so we need to limit on our own use of electronic devices and media.
In my interview with Susan Stiffelman the author of Parenting with Presence, we discuss the many issues facing parents raising children in our modern world. Susan states”When our relationship with our children is permeated with our whole-hearted engagement and presence, then our children our more inclined to turn to us, rather than to their friends, for guidance and support.” If you are interested in raising children with greater levels of appreciation, gratitude, and spirituality then I recommend listening to our interview and reading he new book “Parenting with Presence“.
I hope you enjoy this great interview with an author that will shed light and wisdom on how to parent in the modern world. You can learn more about Susan by clicking here to be directed to her website, or click here to be directed to the Facebook page .
I happen to be watching the documentary ” Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead #2″ by Joe Cross. If you have not seen this documentary it is certainly worth watching, and learning about the life changing steps that Joe Cross took to get himself and thousands of others back to health and vitality.
As a result of watching Joe’s documentary I payed particular attention to an interview he conducted with Brian Wansink from Cornell’s Food and Brand Lab. I was fascinated by how Brain was focused on how the change in our surroundings and environment can have a significant impact on our health and nutrition, so I reached out to him to do an interview for Inside Personal Growth.
In this interview with Brian Wansink, Ph.D. you will learn how simply it is to reconstruct and rethink your environments for success in your food consumption. Brian says that the answer isn’t to tell people what to do: it is to set up their living environments so that they will naturally lose weight. He says we need to work with human nature not against it, and that willpower is a very challenging way to shift our eating patterns for success, and he proves it in his new book “Slim By Design“.
During our dialogue together we discuss some very simple techniques that you can employ in you home, the restaurants you eat in, your grocery store, your workplace and at your children’s school. You will learn how to create a mindless solution for your eating habits, that will work and allow you to shed the unwanted pounds. This is not to state that you can only change your environment for success, you still need to exercise and learn what foods are healthy for you, but this factor is a key to a healthy lifestyle change in what you eat and how much weight you might be able to lose.
I hope you enjoy this upbeat and lively interview with a fascinating man and scientist, Brian Wansink, Ph.D. If you want to learn more about “Slim By Design” or his other books please click here to be directed to his website.
What an honor to interview Rick Hanson the author of another great book entitled “Hardwiring Happiness“. My last interview with Rick was for his book “Just One Thing, Developing A Buddha Brain One Simple Practice at a Time”.
In our interview together we get to dialogue about how our brains are not really hardwired for happiness, and how to use various practices that will help us to rewire our brains for happiness. Rick explains the “three” layers of the brain which I think is fascinating and allows us to better understand the “why” behind our inability to just get happy. One of his practices Rick has developed, and he uses the acronym “HEAL” , which stand for Have, Enrich, Absorb and Link. This is a simple process developed to awaken us so we can reprogram our brains for happiness.
Another simple process he discusses in our inteview is just taking the time to notice our positive experiences. This might sound simple but when was the last time that we took a few minutes to just bask in the awe of one of our happy moments. As Rick states this helps us to reprogram the brains to better be wired to happiness. I can not guarantee that we will all become Dalai Lama’s after listening to my interview with Rick, but it will put you on the right track to greater levels of happiness.
I hope you enjoy this wonderful interview with a fascinating author and advocate for well being and happiness.
If you would like to learn more about Rick Hanson and his wonderful program entitled ” The Foundations of Well-Being” please click on the link provided and check out his great site. Also if you want to watch a great TED talk video just click here.
Christopher Phillips the author of Socrates Cafe is a man on a mission. He is attempting to help bring the Socrates philosophy back into our lives. He is the founder of the Socrates Cafe, and the author of Socrates Cafe and Six Questions of Socrates.
In my interview with Chris we discuss the lost art of the socratic method and the value it brings into our lives. He discuss the Socrates Cafe’s that are springing up throughout our country and around the world. Chris says that he does not facilitate the Cafe to teach others, he states that he facilitates the Cafe’s so others can teach him. He has event facilitated the Cafe in prisons with the intention of helping inmates to better understand one another and the world around them.
If you are interested in bringing critical thinking skills back into your life I would highly recommend reading the Six Questions of Socrates. In this book Chris asks six questions: What is virtue? What is courage? What is Justice? What is Piety? What is Moderation? What is Good? Socrates believed that seeking out the perspective of other on these six questions would help him become a better human being? Go ahead ask yourself these questions–what does it stimulate in your mind?
If you are interested in learning more about Christopher Phillips and the Socrates Cafe please click here for more information. You can also visit the Facebook page by clicking here.
I think that many American’s ask the question on a regular basis, especially with our congress “Where are the leaders”? Yes, leadership is a skill and talent that is learned, and just because you have a law degree or any other degree in higher education doesn’t qualify you to be a skilled leader. I recently had the pleasure of interviewing Eric Kaufmann the author of a new book entitled ” Leadership As A Hero’s Journey“.
In our interview together we discussed how “Joseph Campbell’s” famous “Hero’s Journey” is an important element of all brave and committed leaders. Eric states that leadership as a Hero’s Journey unfolds on three levels 1) results 2) wisdom and 3) spirituality. He also states that there are four virtues associated with leadership and they are 1) Focus: What am I creating? Focus sets direction and clarity for the journey. 2) Courage: What am I avoiding? Courage enables full engagement that is otherwise blocked by anxiety and fear. 3) Grit: What am I sustaining? Grit drives action forward in the face of fatigue and disheartenment.
I know you are going to enjoy this wonderful interview with author and consultant Eric Kaufmann about his new book. If you want to learn more about Eric please click here to be directed to his website.
I had the pleasure of speaking with author Tina Gilberston about her new book entitled ” Constructive Wallowing“. I know the title sounds a little like an oxymoron but believe me after you listen to this interview, I think you will change your mind about how positive “constructive wallowing” can be for your emotional and mental well being.
Society tells us to put on a happy face whenever we feel blue, and as Tina states we end of ignoring what’s true—and what is making us feel empty, lonely and stuck. We are all aware that suppressing our feelings leads to numerous health issues such as tension headaches, anxiety, high blood pressure and so many others. I encourage you to listen carefully to my interview with Tina, she really has some constructive advice and guidance about how to beat bad feelings by letting them go.
If you would like to learn more about Tina Gilberston please click here to be directed to her website.