with David Homan
Dec 4, 2025
Inside Personal Growth
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In a soulful and wide-ranging conversation on Inside Personal Growth, host Greg Voisen welcomes back the one and only Arielle Ford, renowned relationship expert and bestselling author, to discuss her bold leap into fiction with her debut novel, The Love Thief: A Novel.
It's been nearly two decades since Arielle’s last visit to the show, and this time, she returns with a story that’s equal parts revenge, romance, and deep spiritual healing—a novel five years in the making and, as she puts it, one that simply would not leave her alone.
The Love Thief tells the story of Holly—a woman devastated by betrayal who embarks on a life-altering journey to Rishikesh, India. What begins as a trip for culinary adventure soon unfolds into a deeply spiritual healing process, aided by unexpected mentors, mystical landscapes, and hard-earned revelations.
With raw honesty, Arielle dives into the messy realities of narcissistic abuse, toxic love, and the emotional rollercoaster that follows. But she doesn’t shy away from the rage, profanity, and chaos—instead, she embraces them, offering readers validation, catharsis, and ultimately, forgiveness.
At the heart of the book lies the Sanskrit concept of Santosha, or contentment—the idea that even amidst pain and loss, one can cultivate inner peace. Through Holly’s path and Arielle’s own experiences in India, we’re reminded that growth is not always graceful, but it is always possible.
Arielle weaves real-life figures like Deepak Chopra and Sadhvi Bhagawati Saraswati into the story, creating a rich spiritual fabric that readers will find both grounding and inspiring.
Arielle dismantles the myth that you must love yourself completely before you can be loved by another. In fact, she argues the opposite: being in a loving relationship can actually help you love yourself more, through mirrored reflection and growth.
Whether you’re healing from betrayal, searching for love, or learning to forgive, The Love Thief offers a mirror to your own journey—with grace, humor, and wisdom.
Arielle has also launched an exclusive India travel giveaway—a chance for readers to walk in Holly’s footsteps through sacred sites in Rishikesh. Learn more about the bonus gifts and sweepstakes at TheLoveThief.com.
Final takeaway: There’s no shortage of love in the world. Whether it's from a partner, a friend, or the divine—if you're feeling a love deficit, maybe it's time to give more of it yourself.
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